Birthday: 2019

My father passed away on the 10th of this month.  But that isn’t what this post is about.  Maybe I will write about his passing, and what it means, when I am capable of properly articulating what I want to say.  What I need to say.  What I need to have heard.

Instead, I want to talk about my birthday.  October 22nd, 2019, I turned 41 years old.  Currently, I am 41 years old, plus one week.  Over the hill.  On the downward slide.  An old fucker.

Well, maybe not the last one.

As with any birthday, I am inclined to look back on the last year.  The last life.  What I did that I wish I wouldn’t have.  What I didn’t do, that I wish I had.

After Action Reviews.  Introspections.  Recollections.


Scandinavian Fjord

As I sit here and take stock of my life, I realize that I tend to focus too much time and energy on what I should or should not have done in the past.  I am definitely my own worst critic (minus my father, perhaps) and fail to give as much credit to myself as I should.

Being a Dad is hard.  Being a good Dad is even harder. But, reaching Dad Level Viking status, should be the easiest.  Because to be a DLV member, you have to be passionate about improvement.  You need to be passionate about the pursuit of being a better father.  Not just a father that ticks the boxes for society’s taste, but a father who desires to instill in their children the more noble qualities of what we know about the Vikings (and more specifically, Norse culture) of over a millennium ago.  Virtues like loyalty.  Bravery.  Tenacity.

Aside from what we hope to teach our children, to be a DLV, you need to make sure that every area of your life follows the Viking principles, and more.  Not everyone is a Dad.  But everyone who is, or wants to be, needs to take care of themselves and their partners, as well as their children.  There is more work to being a DLV than just attending baseball practice.

I guess what I am getting at, is that this whole Dad Level Viking ideal is a pursuit of being the best that we can possibly be, in keeping with the ideals and cultural norms of the Norse age.  It’s a process.  A process I don’t exactly have figured out.

But a process I am willing to work at, and refine.

In the coming days, weeks, months, and years, I will share a more precise vision of what I see that can be helpful to men of this age, and by correlation, the world and all of its people. I invite you to discuss, consider, and live the focusing standards that I will unveil, and debate if necessary (as long as it is done so cordially, and intelligently).

I hope you all come along with me for this journey toward being a better person.  A better Dad.  A better husband.  A better man.



P.S.  Even if you are not a Dad yet, I encourage you to participate.  Being a good Dad, will never be a final achievement.  You will need to work on it, every day of your life.  And that work that you put in, will benefit you as a man.  As a partner.  As a friend.  Regardless of current fatherhood status.

So, if you are not yet a Dad, consider this an opportunity to get a head start.  Learn from others.  Do the work now, so you can reap the rewards later.  You won’t be disappointed.

Week 1 Results – The Fruit of No Fruit

Week 1 for my weight loss challenge was a success. 8.6 lbs lost in week 1. I had a lot of good wins, a few good losses, and a refined idea of how I will improve in Week 2.

What are you guys doing to get better this week?

I cut wa back on carbs, for one, but other than that, I really didn’t do anything too hard core.  I just counted my calories, and made sure that even if I did have a small cup of cie cream, I was still below my self-imposed daily limit.

Week 1 = 7 Days, 7 Wins (100% stuck to my goal)

I had some good improvements, and some not so good actions.

Week 0 vs Week 1_Results
Week 1 AAR
Starting Weight: 337.0 lbs
Week 1 End Weight: 328.4 lbs
Week 1 Weight Loss: 8.6 lbs
Total Calories Allowed: 15,190
Total Calories Consumed: 12,352
Calories Below Limit: 2,838
Calories Burned By Exercise: 89
Calories For Maintenance (3,170 per day): 22,190
Calories Below Maintenance: 9,538
Week 2 Daily Calories Limit: 2,084
What did I get done this week?
* I lost 8.6 lbs, which is 2.55% of my starting weight.
What didn’t I get done this week?
* I was aiming for 10 lbs. I thought I was on track, but didn’t quite make it.
What did I do well?
* I hit my challenge goal of staying below 2,170 daily calories, 7 days in a row. That was a 100% success.
What didn’t I do well?
* I didn’t eat very clean. While I stayed below calorie levels, some of that food was definitely not something that someone who is aiming for fat loss, SHOULD be eating.
* I did not get nearly enough exercise in.
What will I do better this week?
* I will eat more clean, adding more vegetables and fruits, while paying more attention to my macros (especially protein intake).
* I will start a weight training program this week, and return to rowing. I will also aim to get a minimum of 15 miles per week in from rucking.

400K To Prepare For May – Day 25 (April 29th, 2019) – The End

Well, we made it to the end, Day 25.  I knew that 400K steps in 25 days, was going to be difficult.  I slacked, myself, only completing a very tiny amount over halfway. That being said, we had a lot of really great performances, including 3 finishers who surpassed 400K steps!

All in all, I would say that the challenge in April was a success.  So, without further ado, I give you the final data for Day 25, and the overall challenge.

Total Steps for Day 25:  205,199

Total Steps Over 25 Days:  4,438,483

Participants for Day 25:  14

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Leaders for Day 25 were:

1.  Jorel Gilbert –  Super impressive grit in this guy!

  • 25,255 steps on Day 25.
  • Exercise for Day 24:  Shadow Boxing

2.  Aaron Smischney – Finishing out STRONG!

  • 23,525 steps on Day 25.
  • Exercise for Day 25:  Weight Training

3.  Joe Aagard – Back in the top 3!

  • 22,430 steps on Day 25.
  • Exercise for Day 25:  Rucking Squats

The overall standings at the end of the Challenge, are below:

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Overall Leaders After Day 25:

1.  Pramit Baul – In the overall lead for a VERY impressive 10 consecutive days!

  • 447,680 steps to close out

2.  Matthew Halk – Saved the best for last to break 400K!

  • 413,162 steps to close out

3.  Jorel Gilbert – My man made it VERY interesting at the wire, but couldn’t QUITE catch up to Matt.

  • 410,429 steps to close out

The remaining challengers finished with the following steps:

4th Place:  Ryan Gillett – 346,974 steps
5th Place:  John Winsborough – 334,717 steps
6th Place:  Aaron Smischney – 329,410 steps
7th Place:  Dustin Charbonnet – 320,702 steps
8th Place:  Nicolas Bean – 291,605 steps
9th Place:  Jeff Bennett – 263,741 steps
10th Place:  Joe Aagard – 254,770 steps
11th Place:  David Ford – 241,086 steps
12th Place:  Mike Denmon – 200,039 steps
13th Place:  Nick Martinson – 140,974 steps
14th Place:  Jim Mahan – 130,188 steps
15th Place:  James Patterson – 121,521 steps
16th Place:  David Yancey – 101,595 steps
17th Place:  Nick Hyllestad – 67,000 steps
18th Place:  Jarrett Harris – 22,890 steps





Our participation rage varied from day to day, and it was hard to keep a really accurate graph during the challenge, because people would sometimes post their steps a couple of days (sometimes weeks) late.

  • We averaged 14 participants per day
  • We had 18 total participants over the 25 days

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Steps Per Day

The steps per day also seemed to vary, and not necessarily in accordance with reduced or increased participation counts, which was kind of strange.

  • Maximum daily step count of 230, 468 steps
  • Minimum daily step count of 140,012 steps
  • Average steps per day was 177,539 steps

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The Climb To 4 Million + Steps

The final numbers, while not quite as high as the 5 million steps I was HOPING for, 4 million steps in 25 days is still pretty impressive.  We definitely would have reached 5 million if we had went the full 30 days of April.  There’s always next time!

  • Total Steps:  4,438,483
  • Average Steps Per Challenger:  246,582
  • 400K Finishers:  3
  • Maximum Individual Steps For The Challenge:  447,680 steps (Pramit Baul)
  • Maximum Individual Steps For One Day:  32,918 steps (Aaron Smischney)


I will probably come up with more stats to share, but for now, my wife is looking at me with purpose, which means it is time to take our son for a walk.

The purpose of this challenge, was to get people moving AND exercising.  One thing that I didn’t really share in the daily updates, was the type of exercises that people were doing.  Anywhere from weight training, to bodyweight exercises, to building fence, boxing, and dancing.  I will probably share this in another post, when I have time to collate all of the data into something that seems interesting.

For now, I will go do what this challenge was intended to do.  I will get up, and get moving.

Thanks for following along!  And sincere thanks to everyone who put in the work on the daily to get their steps and exercise in, and make this challenge such a success.




400K To Prepare For May – Day 24 (April 28th, 2019)

Day 24 was a drop in steps, but still in the 6 figure range…so at least there is that.  I really thought that we would top 4 million steps on Day 24, but it looks like we will save the best for the last day.

We still only have one challenger at 400K, which is surprising, even though it was a bit of a stretch…I thought for sure Matt would close the distance to 400K on Day 24.  But there is always Day 25!

Here are the results from Day 24 of the 400K To Prepare For May Challenge:

Total Steps for Day 24:  104,428

Total Steps so far:  3,996,890

Participants for Day 24:  8

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Leaders for Day 24 were:

1.  Jorel Gilbert –  The man won’t quit!

  • 18,635 steps on Day 24.
  • Exercise for Day 24:  Cycling

2.  Matthew Halk – Painfully close to 400K, but not quite over the top yet!

  • 16,015 steps on Day 24.
  • Exercise for Day 24:  Abs

3.  Pramit Baul – Cruise mode, engaged!

  • 15,330 steps on Day 24.
  • Exercise for Day 24:  No exercise

The overall standings so far, are below:

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Overall Leaders After Day 24:

1.  Pramit Baul – Still steppin’!

  • 428,345 steps so far

2.  Matthew Halk – Almost to 400K!

  • 396,187 steps so far

3.  Jorel Gilbert – Closed the gap to 2nd place a bit…will he make a charge?

  • 385,174 steps so far

I fully expect 3 400K finishers by the end of tomorrow.  Time will be the judge!

400K To Prepare For May – Day 23 (April 27th, 2019)

Day 23 was our highest total day in almost a week!  Nice to see us all ending this thing VIKING STRONG!

Additionally, we have our first 400K finisher!  Pramit closed the day out at 413,015 steps, once again being the first to hit a new level.

Not to be outdone, Aaron had a huuuuuge day, setting a new single day record with 32,918 steps, while completing a GORUCK altitude challenge, to boot.  Out-freaking-standing!

Here are the results from Day 23 of the 400K To Prepare For May Challenge:

Total Steps for Day 23:  159,157

Total Steps so far:  3,892,462

Participants for Day 23:  10

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Leaders for Day 23 were:

1.  Aaron Smischney –  Breaking records wherever he goes, even his own!

  • 32,918 steps on Day 23.
  • Exercise for Day 23:  GORUCK Altitude Challenge

2.  John Winsborough – Making another appearance on the leaderboard, all while lifting weights and clearing brush.

  • 21,345 steps on Day 23.
  • Exercise for Day 23:  Clearing brush

3.  Pramit Baul – Taking it easy on all of us with ONLY 20K steps on the day…

  • 20,466 steps on Day 23.
  • Exercise for Day 23:  No exercise

The overall standings so far, are below:

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Overall Leaders After Day 23:

1.  Pramit Baul – First to 400K!!!  Congrats!

  • 413,015 steps so far

2.  Matthew Halk – Will Matt reach 400K in one more day??? (yep…still rhyming)

  • 380,172 steps so far

3.  Jorel Gilbert – Hanging tough in 3rd, and REFUSES to leave the leaderboard!

  • 366,539 steps so far

How many of us will break the 400K barrier?  My money is on 3….could I be proven wrong?

400K To Prepare For May – Day 22 (April 26th, 2019)

Day 22 was another day in the 120’s, which I will gladly accept!

Pramit draws tortuously close to the 400K steps, goal which is freakin’ fantastic!  He will be there tomorrow, for sure.  Who will follow him onto the 400K level?

Here are the results from Day 22 of the 400K To Prepare For May Challenge:

Total Steps for Day 22:  123,538

Total Steps so far:  3,733,305

Participants for Day 22:  10

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Leaders for Day 22 were:

1.  Jorel Gilbert –  Taking a 1st place finish on his road to recovery!

  • 17,185 steps on Day 22.
  • Exercise for Day 22:  No Exercise

2.  Dustin Charbonnet – Back on the leaderboard!

  • 16,100 steps on Day 22.
  • Exercise for Day 22:  Body Weight Exercises

3.  Mike Denmon – How about that?!? I made the leaderboard!

  • 15,829 steps on Day 22.
  • Exercise for Day 22:  Burpees

The overall standings so far, are below:

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Overall Leaders After Day 22:

1.  Pramit Baul – 400K ios but a whisper away…yeah, I rhymed on purpose.

  • 392,549 steps so far

2.  Matthew Halk – Fairly comfortable lead in 2nd place…but not TOO comfortable.

  • 364,651 steps so far

3.  Jorel Gilbert – Valiant comeback attempt in the works…can he get back into 2nd place?

  • 354,820 steps so far

Looking forward to the next barrier to be broken, 400K steps!

400K To Prepare For May – Day 21 (April 25th, 2019)

Empire crumbling….steps dwindling….hopes of reaching 4 million steps…dissipating.

If you or anyone you know would like to contribute to this great cause, please let me know…I would be happy to count your steps as well!  Share with all of your steps counting friends.  I am not picky.

Here are the standings after Day 21:

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Overall standings so far:

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Total steps walked at the end of Day 21:  3,539,100 steps.